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Child Support is a Son of a Bish…when you’re involved..

I haven’t been on this or my platform for a while because like most of you, I’m living life. However, I’m tired of this this continual bs between the state and my baby Mother. Excuse me for any typos but I’M PISSED! As a writer and a avid reader, I needed to speak on this subject because society has taught women, and has given privilege to women, that all MEN are incapable of taking care of their children. Remember, women only recognize when the child is yours, or your turn. Despite the countless (recently, guys who have lamented) about the unfair child support system which actually targets active Fathers; women haven’t changed. Since most of us are no longer involved with these bishes they are hell bent on making us suffer while they get pay raise for their employer. They are fine with receiving benefits from Uncle Sam for 18 years, but don’t give a damn if an active and FINANCIALLY SUPPORTIVE FATHER PROVIDES? But as a Man, no, a Negro, I have to take it because we’ve been socialized that our women run the community, right? Bull. That’s always been the plan and it has been conditioned to both sexes that black men are to submit to the women. The problem is that this ‘conditioning’ has just like a viral tweet, has spread to other communities. Because what we do, impacts everyone else. From music, to dance, to fashion, whatever! We our the symbol of cool like Miles Davis. But let me get back to this child support thing though, if you’re a woman and you KNOW your EX still handles his business with his child, there’s no reason to punish him after that said child is grown. See, I’m not one of those Fathers who loves his child or children to the point where i’m gonna fight like hell to be involved. Bump that! I respect you as a parent respect me, because all you’re doing is trying to make yourself as the best parent, (as we were in competition), when our job is to raise better children, not hurtful adults. FYI: I have a grown young adult who will be 19 shortly. She’s emancipated and doing good. I only spoke on child support because its just another unconstitutional law to keep men in the prison gang. Those who know, know.

While I understand there’s dudes who dont care their seeds/children. The problem is, I don’t fall into the basket of scum. I’m PROUD of my daughter and I hope she excels in any career of her choosing. However, its tuff because we live in an overt, dumb-downed society. Just look at your social media pages. Its almost like people are speaking in codes, lol. Forgive me I had to rant tonight because we’re living in a society where men are tools, (especially black men), for not just black women, but for everyone’s disposal. It’s like the system has been designed for not only to keep you in the system; but even your woman to keep you in system and lord over you. Most brothers or men won’t say what I said because of fear and possible retaliation. Suckas. I’m airing this out for the benefit of writing and I GO THROUGH REAL SHIIIZIT JUST LIKE YOU, LOL. When we’re down as men, we have to figure it out. There’s no GoFundMe’s for us unless we’re killed by a white cop/person. Thats your race bait angle for you when in the end; we’re all getting played. I’m back and I’m not going nowhere. Lastly. outside of this arrearage nonsenses when a Ninja was laided off, there was certain politics and politicians that disgust me, especially from you Negroes. It seems like y’all have a religious, Christ is white and it doesn’t matter, mindset, when it comes to Democrats. You’re on my radar as well. I’m not a great fan of the so-called right wing either, especially after the many questionable RINO’S in that party but I will pause for now. I needed a therapeutic, writers’ relief because we are living in a world like the movie, “They Live”.