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Why Stephen A. Smith Can’t Win When It Comes To the Illogical Negro

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I’m writing this post because I’m so upset with you so-called black men. I understand why black women (and no I will not say all), black women will form like Voltron to come to the defense of Rep. Jasmine Crockett from Texas; but you black men coming at Stephen A for critiquing her immature, termagant, and ghetto malfeasance behavior when she speaks about President Trump, even though she comes from a privilege and private school background and could care less about the black community She called Trump a “Nepo” baby while she’s always had a silver spoon in her mouth. In the words of Wesley Snipes from the 1991 movie, New Jack City, “I wasn’t always born with a silver spoon in my mouth, Miss Hawkins”. Jasmine is playing you gullible fools while breathing historical stereotypes about black women: loud-mouthed, unfiltered, and here recently, this ‘Boss B*tch’ attitude. But you to black dudes who are defending her, Negro you look WEAK because you’re scared to confront those black women! However, because I know y’all, NO I’m not a Trump supporting her and it really doesn’t have to do with him. This has more to do about the IMAGE and the behavior of Miss Crockett which is something you Negroes seem to forget, yet are absolutely comfortable with.  

For the record, this not the first time I defended Stephen A. Smith because I wrote an article about him on this blog over ten years ago when he had to ‘apologize’ to feminist, Michelle Beadle. Beadle violated social media company guidelines when she verbally attacked Smith during the Ray Rice domestic violence scenario, but ESPN did not suspend her for her actions. I said back then, when First Take was ascending once Stephen A became a regular alongside Skip Bayless on the show, SAS should have finished his contract and went independently, because at that time, you Negroes were supporting SAS because we all know Beadle was wrong. Nonetheless, after his suspension, SAS returned and his platform, ESPN First Take, which continued to grow exponentially in ratings as far as sports talk/debate shows goes in the morning. Despite the success, here come y’all Negroes mad when he critiqued black athletes for their behavior; which is actually a part of his job.

You Negroes formed a narrative around SAS which is typical when a successful black man, (really any black person), criticizes so-called black Americans about our broken culture and how we celebrate degeneracy over dignity. You did it with Bill Cosby when he was the blueprint to black successful entertainers. Let me transition to why I’m defending SAS against some of the same people he’s aligned with, which are Black Greek fraternity, SAS made a mistake by questioning or critiquing a Soro: one Jasmine Crockett. I won’t get into the black fraternity nonsense, but I find it funny how Tiffany Cross and Angela Rye, had the largest voices to make you docile black men come to the defense of Jasmine Crockett.

So according to you educated Negresses, the black man has to bow to your degree’s and your ability to be chosen (over your own men), in certain jobs? I’m speaking as a blue collar dude and I’ve seen black women do things that black men could never get away with. But you’re so oppressed? You broads know this. This is the case with Tiffany Cross and Angela Rye. Two bougie, Color Purple feminists, who only deal with weak men who worship them because of their hue or skin color. The fact they couldn’t address what SAS said, but they only focused on the fact he addressed a black woman about her behavior and rhetoric. This lets me know that women in certain positions and even in the ghetto, black women believe not only do they think they’re better than black men socially, they believe (black man) you are their slaves. Check it. SAS has bent over backwards to salute black women (including his daughters and his sisters), SAS has been your HARPO! See, you black men aren’t getting it. Black women have had this anti-black man, and you don’t measure up mind control over many of y’all like Deebo. As a Black women have been spewing “Black ain’t shit,” rhetoric for almost 50 years, and being a ‘Real Man’ is we’re supposed to take it? No! This is why you have Tiffany Cross, Angela Rye, and countless others (most of them are weak ass Negroes like Willie D, D.L. Hughley, Roland Martin, and you busters online), who are coming at SAS because he was bold enough to call out Miss Crockett? On her behavior we’ve all have seen? Stop it. Again, I totally disagreed with SAS when it came to Kyrie Irving during Co-Vid, nevertheless, I can separate between the two. I know some of you Negroes will think I’m “Pro Trump” or some black conservative. No. I read books and y’all are the only ones being tricked.  

I would go deeper, but I know we live in a time when people are moved by social media and the old news. Still, for you race bait black folks because you’re doing what the ‘hidden hand’ in the middle wants you to do. Black men, most of these black women who are cosigning this are letting you know how famous, how influential, or how much money you have, they hate you. They hate your success and they hate who you are. Wake up black men!

There is a distinction in the black community were we have blacks Americans who have a logical blueprint, verses those who might, but to stay ‘down’ with a destructive culture. I’m not saying I’m a SAS supporter and again, I hated how he targeted Kyrie Irving. However, when someone says something correct, especially when a black man critiques a black woman, you Negroes are upset? I get the Negro females being upset, but you brothers?  It only shows how y’all have been trained like a slave

Black women know what it is. They love symbolism over substance and many of you black men do as well. Sadly, you’d rather your woman be your VOICE. Something is wrong Son, smh.

Salute to the ladies, but fuck you bitches and weak ass dudes!

Black America, The New face of Racism; looks like your Mother

Now I know some of you Negroes and liberal white supporters will get mad at my title. I want you to. Black men, hold up, free-thinking black men have been silenced for decades. We had to go along to get alone (shout out Kwame Brown), just to stay in the good grace of our so-called women. Why do I say so-called? Its because there’s a book called, “Daughter’s of the Trade”, that I’ve discovered by way of a You Tuber named BGS. And based on the information in the book and being a study of black culture, it all lines up. It’s not that I hate black women’; because I don’t. Again, I have a black daughter, so what I say is what I would say to her, with no question. Black women, as a collective, don’t love black men; they tolerate us. They will tolerate us IF we have money, stability, and some good d**k! Now you might be thinking, “What’s wrong with that?” You can fit all of those “necessary standards,” and yet she’ll find another requirement you need to meet. F**k that.

Kamala Harris is exposing black women’s undying loyalty of being worshipped. Yes, I said worshipped. Not only by the Dr. Umar’s of the world who most of them has raised to be Charm’s blow pop simps; but utter worshippers who disregard what black women do only to get in the good graces of black women. Many of us have been socialized like this. Black men, who did you fight when someone spoke ill of your parents? Your Father or Mother?

Now let’s speak on Candace Owens. A smart, articulate, and logical Negro American (Sorry but not sorry, lol). Now know some of you Niggas from them the FBA cult-mindset will say, “She’s a Immigrant, lol” STFU. She born and raised in America, stop letting that guy fill your head with that bs. Anyways, Kamala has you Negroes supporting her because YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE SHES’S BLACK? ARE YOU SERIOUS? So her record as a DA doesn’t matter? How she can’t even answer a question logically, doesn’t matter? The fact she strategically locked up black parents, and you’re riding with her? You black women will choose your allegiance (some of you), to a black Greek sorority and some of you bs frat Niggas, (the Rickey Smiley’s of the world), to manipulate and systematically brainwash your own people? Free thinking black men AND women know what your game is. And we aren’t buying.

As for the new face of racism, you see it all the time. Black men have been punked in regard to speaking on this issue. We have to be silent. We have to bow to the black queen because we either want to be in some good p***y or we’re straight up scared. This is why black women on average likes thugs, what. Getting back to my point, racism has trickled down to the slave master’s wench, the black woman, Black women has been allotted power, prestige, and position, on the level that black men has never been advanced to be. And for some of you women who will read this and get in your feelings, “Shut the f**k up!” I told you; I don’t hate y’all, I just know y’all. The fact that a significant number of black women are supporting Kamala Harris is ridiculous. Not only that, but she’s also making y’all the symbol of ignorance and stupidity!

To further get into my point, what’s up with the harassment on social media? We see in sports and black men having social media platforms. I’m not going to bring up that girl balling for the Fever, lol. However, I will bring up how y’all hide behind every ‘ism’ (colorism, featurism, etc), just to be uplifted above your man on the social latter. It’s a damn shame. I will have a part two to this post, until I’ll fall back. Trust me, I have heat, lol. Now some of y’all might be like, “Don’t be talking about my Momma, lol”. No fool, I just know MOST OR MANY of you black males have been heavily influenced by your Momma, and p***y! So the fact I’m speaking on this topic makes you feel a certain way. I get it and I rebuke that p***y devil that’s in you! Seriously

We are in an age where women have not only power, but privilege. This includes black women. If black men say or act, (but its really what we say, lol), we are banned, thrown under the bus, black-balled and forced to apologize. Hell, we’re even told what women to date according to their race and she better be “dark-skinned” enough. Meanwhile, black women can date and choose whoever they want and will never feel the scrutiny from the black communitah. This election will let not only black men, but other Americans know where black women stand. “Why are you sweating black women?” Because bish y’all are our largest voting block and many – not all – are falling for the okey doke which is making y’all the new racists. See, Kamala didn’t make y’all the new racists; Negroes already knew but most were too scared to say something. I’m a freed slave.

Stop worshipping a woman who don’t respect you men. Peace!

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My Thoughts on Dr. Umar Johnson’s ‘Striptease’

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Before I begin this post, I must admit I am a modest supporter of Dr. Umar Johnson. Now, when I say that, I say it because I don’t agree with all of his ideological stances. I don’t believe in praying to the ancestors, all white people are devils, studying ancient Kemet, or calling each other “Kings and Queens.” The idea of having “knowledge of self” hasn’t really helped the Negro no more than prosperity pimps found in mega churches. I will say, however, just like those who actually study and follow the bible or the Christian faith, if you consider yourself as being a conscious person, Pan-Africanist, black Muslim, whatever! If it works for you AND it helps to the betterment of the black community, I have no problem. Now, in transitioning back to Dr. Johnson, the primary reason why I have followed his messages is because he’s the first person I’ve encountered who’s addressed not only the school to prison pipeline in regards to young black boys; but the mis-diagnosing, special education for monetary gain aspect as well.  Unfortunately, when the leader or progenitor who prides himself as being the “Prince of Pan-Africanism,” a Garveyite, and who’s a direct descendant of Fredrick Douglass (a claim he makes), is found being involved with a stripper—scratch that—a so-called conscious stripper, it really speaks volumes.

I’ve heard all of the arguments like “it’s about the message not the man” or “he’s not married, he’s single so what’s the big deal etc.” and to be clear, no one is faulting him for having a sexual relationship. What he does behind closed doors is between him and whoever he’s involved with. However, when that person who prides herself as being an adult entertainer, aka a stripper, is the person you’re involved with and your name is Dr. Umar Johnson; Houston we have a problem. See, it goes like this: In many people’s eyes Umar is considered a person of high esteem and although still fairly young, some laud him as the new voice of black America—like it or not. A Certified School Psychologist and a Dr. of Clinical Psychology, Umar is sought out motivational speaker and tours endlessly across the nation teaching, exhorting, uplifting and challenges his audiences to become more active in their communities especially when it comes to  childhood education. At the center of this controversy lies the proposed school, the Frederick Douglass & Marcus Garvey RBG International Leadership Academy (FDMG), that he’s currently raising money and receiving donations via a gofundme account. One can only assume the slanderous and relentless assertion of “fraud” has begun to taint the Dr.’s movement, fundraiser, and more importantly; his character.

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The “conscious” stripper (a name she states Umar had given her) real name is Kym Ringgold. Along with being an adult entertainer, she also describes herself as a Lipsync artist and Pan-African activist; you know the typical pro-black jargon in conjunction with the liberation of our people. Apparently, this “conscious” woman has made it her mission in life to expose Dr. Johnson as being a liar stemming from The Roland Martin Radio Show, where Dr. Johnson was a fill in as a guest host for Martin. During the two hour show, the man who is known as being “unapologetically African,” was definitely unapologetic when he stated:

“I’m not sexually active; I’m celibate.”

-The Roland Martin Radio Show, May 6, 2015

Now in most Negroid circles, a man declaring himself as being celibate would render remarks of ridicule, ribbing, or in Negroid terminology suggest that “you don’t have no game.” But remember, this is Dr. Umar Johnson we’re talking about here. Such an attainment of abstinence for any length of time would have been commendable; primarily because he has a pretty sizable female following. Nevertheless, Ms. Conscious let everyone know in an ongoing barrage of tweets, that Dr. Johnson was being anything else but celibate. Let’s just say the conscious aka pro-black community suffered a hit tantamount of when Karrine Steffens wrote her New York Times bestselling book “Confessions of a Video Vixen.”

Social media has allowed people to express themselves in a bevy of ways. It has allowed the common man to film and upload significant events, celebrations, comedic flare, intimate moments and unfortunate tragedies. However, it has also become the place for juvenile debasement, soft porn, social depravity, ghetto buffoonery, violence, and online harassment called trolling. In case with Ringgold and Johnson, one must decipher if this is really about exposing Dr. Johnson or an attempt for social media fame? Would it be farfetched to say she got tired of Umar’s sexual demands so she decided to expose him as being nothing more than your typical “thirsty” Negro?  Let us think for second here, the only reason why this is a story at all is because of her adult profession. Put aside the fact she claims to be conscious, it’s because of the word “stripper” that black folks have become fixated with this story hands down. Not to mention Ms. Conscious is very easy on the eyes; ahem.

I am no way trying to belittle Ms. Ringgold nor excusing Dr. Johnson for his private escapade gone public by way Twitter and Instagram. In my opinion, this is more than about him just “having sex” with someone; it’s speaks volumes to this stripper culture that has become so embedded within the black community that even a sista who considers herself conscious; thinks there’s nothing wrong with being both openly. I started to compared it to a born-again Christian woman claiming to love the Lord while still a stripper, but that analogy is actually a reality by way of Latascha Emanuel; who conducts bible studies nearly bare chested; and she claims to a MINISTER! Even though Ms. Emanuel states she’s an ex-stripper, however, judging by the subtle nudity in her videos, let’s just say she still has a long, long, long, way to go. But as much as many faithful followers of Umar would love to point to big, bad “white supremacy” and deem this woman an agent sent by the government (side eye); this just lets you know that there’s a problem with the leadership and the followers. Much like Negro church congregants institutionalized by religious rituals, denominations, and clerical hierarchy; the worship of man has bewitched many who follow the leaders of the conscious community and Dr. Umar is no exception.

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I really couldn’t tell you what Ms. Ringgold’s motives were for exposing Dr. Johnson no more than knowing why he continued having sexual dealings with her after he found out she was a stripper. However, what I can conclude is that Dr. Johnson: “You made eh mistake breh.” I understand nobody’s perfect, we have our vices, and we’re infallible beings, I get all of that. But calling your accuser a “maggot” and “a tramp disguised as a Queen,” is not a good look to your fellow “Kings and Queens.” Hopefully Dr. Johnson will provide a rueful public apology to his loyal supporters and followers; while seeking guidance from his elders (or how they say The Elders, lol). As far as him calling Ms. Ringgold a “conscious stripper” goes; one can only hope for Dr. Johnson’s sake that there’s no other “Karrine’s” out there who might be more concerned with exposing him for the attention they can garner and social media likes—rather than for him misleading his supporters for living a double life. Peace.

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The Black Male Flaw: How Black Men Use Women as a Barometer for Manhood.

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Allow me to reminisce for a second.

There was a time when I was in elementary school when me and other young black males would instigate or get into a fight about some of the most ridiculous of things. Yes, we would get upset or agitated over name calling or if we thought you were stupid; even if you wore clothes that were considered shabby. We pretty much got into rumblings over normal things kids would argue and scuffle over. Yet there was another level of stupidity we would contend for and it included a stick as a prop. So much so if the opponent knocked off the stick (which was placed on your shoulder by others), it was on! And what was this scenario that caused so much conflict and violence you ask?

“Yo Mama.”

This would go on to be the staple for many young black men and it would also become the black woman’s disrespect card that is often pulled. Brothers, tell me if this sounds familiar.

“You ain’t nothing but a Mama’s boy.”

Now with this being the premise, not just for me but other black men, it’s no wonder why we think being a ladies man, a player, or a down right (pseudo) pimp reigns supreme in the minds of many black men. Most of us were raised by single mothers and even if she got married or had so-called step-fathers(s) around; black boys always had the duty to defend their mother. Ironically, our fathers became the blaxploitation film stars, the rappers, the drug dealers and the hustlers. And what did they glamorize or was braggadocios about the most? How much women they had or conquered. Just ask yourself black men, do you or do you know someone you kick it with that always boasts about how many women they knocked off or how many they could pimp? I understand having this mentality when you’re a young man and all; but when you get to your 30’s, 40’s and 50’s are you still keeping up with so-called notches on your belt? If your theme song is “I Don’t Know What You Heard About Me…” from rapper 50 Cent or you still think you’re still Goldie from the movie “The Mack,” then women have epitomized your manhood.82aff94209fee9f1_tumblr_md1gyzBtJO1rkyhcbo1_500

I understand we as men are hunters and conquerors by nature; I get that. But for the most part, however, we have taken our twisted adoration about our Mothers (when used correctly can be healthy btw) and translated it into fighting and defending black women that we aren’t even married to. I myself have been guilty of this absurdity when I was younger defending black women when most of the times; they were in the wrong. Think about it. Most fights (especially in clubs) are over some scantily clad dressed black woman. Even in our relationships, I understand men should take up for a woman to a certain degree; however, it should never be to the extent where physical harm is involved unless she’s your wife. Black women also play a part in this because they often perpetuate these situations by testing our manhood. Again, see if this sounds familiar.

“Oh, so you gonna let him (or them) talk to me that way, for real though? What’s wrong with you? Oh, so you some kind of punk now?”

I kept it clean only because we know often times expletives are often used in the exchange of the word punk.

Black men must understand that some black women aren’t worth saving; (say it again) especially if she’s not your wife!! We put and importance on how many women we can sleep with (or at least lie about how many we sleep with) like it’s some badge of honor that makes us men. I personally know men who’s in their 50’s who still brag about their feminine “escapades” and would clown you if you don’t have something similar or give don’t props to it.

Some say this was something “conditioned” during slavery because the black male was used in breeding. I would agree, however, but that reasoning or theory is not complete. Black people have had a history of worshiping or exalting our reproductive organs and if you don’t believe me check out the story of Nimrod and a plethora of others. The Americanized black, however, has had this abnormal affair with idolizing our mothers and as a result; we define our manhood from the eyes of a woman. Think about it. How come black women can tell us what a “real” man is better than a black man? Furthermore, ask the average black man what a real man is? I will guarantee you it will sound like it’s from a black woman’s perspective or the stereotypes that’s permeated from the media, entertainment, and our community in general. I understand there are some literal deadbeats out there who have children for, whatever the reason, don’t want to be involved in their children’s lives. But to be honest, based off the over 70% black single parent homes, you can’t conclude that over 70% of black men are horrible Fathers (another story for another blog). Now I know if there’s a black man reading this he will probably ask, “Then why don’t you tell me what’s a real black man?” My brother, I could only give my honest opinion about what a real black man is. However, it’s not in conjunction with the aforementioned things I addressed earlier. Black men should prioritize on becoming a husband and a Father more than becoming your typical player. We as African–Americans love the church, but hate reading the bible; which would do us well especially when it comes to reading Proverbs 31. You know that chapter in the bible that makes black women feel good, yet many fail to live up too. Anyways, black men please stop letting “that thing, that thing, that thiiiing,” between a black woman’s legs define you. Maybe Lauryn Hill was trying to give a hidden message in her song Doo-Wop (That Thing).

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Maybe it didn’t just apply to the women fellas.

Peace and Love.


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